Thursday

Cold Weather Recipe!

As many of our friends and family know, Tristan and I love to cook. Tristan has come a long way in the kitchen since he met me... I like to think I taught him everything he knows :) He has definitely become more adventurous when it comes to trying new recipes and making things from scratch. He makes a pretty delicious marinara sauce from the tomatoes and other vegetables we get at the farmers market.

Last night, in honor of the weather being colder, we made one of our favorite soup recipes. It's an italian vegetable soup called minestrone. Our recipe isn't completely vegetarian but you can substitute and subtract a few things if you prefer it to be. This recipe has a good number of ingredients, but it's still simple and makes a ton of soup. We usually double the recipe when we are making it for our families or friends. When following the recipe, just keep in mind that cooking is much more forgiving than baking. If you don't have enough of one vegetable, add more of another. If you don't like one of the ingredients, substitute it for something else. I'm not a religious recipe follower. Sometimes I don't have celery, so I use celery salt. Last night I didn't have any onions or bell peppers, so I just left them out this time. It was still delicious. I say just use what you have. This is a basic outline, make adjustments where you think they're needed!

Minestrone Soup

A few tablespoons of Olive Oil
1 small-medium minced white(or yellow) onion
2 medium sized zucchini, sliced and halved
1 medium sized yellow squash, sliced and halved
1 green bell pepper, chopped
1/2 cup minced celery
4-5 cloves of garlic, minced
2 15 oz. cans of red kidney beans, drained
2 15 oz. cans of white beans, drained
2 medium sized tomatoes, diced (or use canned diced tomatoes)
3 medium sized carrots, chopped or shredded
4 cups of organic chicken stock(use vegetable stock if making vegetarian version)
4-6 cups of fresh kale(or spinach if you prefer), chopped(it looks like a lot but it will wilt down quite a bit)
1 cup small pasta(I use Barilla ditalini)
2 links of cooked organic italian sausage(again, this can be cut out for the vegetarian recipe)
2-3 cups of hot water(this is optional and can be added if you think the soup is too thick)
The Spices:
2 tablespoons fresh or dried parsley
2 tablespoons dried oregano
2 teaspoons salt
1 teaspoon ground black pepper
2 tablespoons dried basil
*Optional: Add 1-2 teaspoons crushed red pepper to make the soup spicy

Since there are so many ingredients, my best advice is to do all the prep work before you start the cooking. Pre-measure the spices in a small bowl. Chop all of your vegetables first and they'll be all ready to add when it's time. So here are the directions:

1. Heat up your olive oil in a large soup/stock pot. In the oil, saute your already prepared zucchini, yellow squash, onion, and celery. Add the garlic a minute or so later, as it cooks faster than the other vegetables and can burn quickly.

2. Once the onions are translucent, add your chicken or vegetable stock, beans, carrots, diced tomatoes, and spices. I usually add a cup of water here, then more later if the soup is very thick.

3. Bring the soup to a boil, then reduce the heat and let it simmer for 15-20 minutes.

4. Stir in the chopped kale and the pasta. Allow this to simmer for another 15-20 minutes.

5. Turn off the heat and let it cool just a little before serving.

Forgive the quality, my iPhone camera isn't the latest and greatest.




Grated parmesan over the top is delicious. We usually eat it with french bread or even just crackers. I hope some of you try this recipe. It's healthy, and it's absolutely wonderful on cold nights! Enjoy :)

-Laura Leigh

Saturday

The Little Things

I love my fiancé. Most days that we spend together are pretty laid back. We jokingly refer to ourselves as old people because a lot of our time is spent taking walks, playing cards, feeding the ducks and turtles, or watching food network. In fact, during a game of dominos, an eight year old in Tristan's courtyard approached us and called us lame.... Definitely old people. We don't go out a ton and we try not to spend money on things we know we could cook for ourselves. I love that about us.

Today was different though. Today we went on a day date. We went to the farmers market, like we do most Saturdays. T bought me a bag of kettle corn. SO GOOD. We bought vegetables and I looked jealously at other people's puppies, like usual. After that Tristan arranged for us to see a movie(still a little like old people since it was at 10:30am), and then we ate lunch at a place I've wanted to try for a while. We had lunch at The Ravenous Pig. It was really good and I'd like to go back and try more of their menu. It seems like they try to use local ingredients, which I love. I had the flatbread with smoked mushrooms, quince, braised chicken, ricotta, and arugula.

Tristan had the shrimp and grits.



We picked up some cheesecake (I got dutch apple streusel and Tristan got pumpkin pecan pie) and headed back to his apartment this afternoon.

It was a fun day. But it wasn't the eating out or the movie that maybe me love it the most. What made me the happiest was having someone that cares enough to plan days like today. It's fun to try something new and I really did love his thoughtfulness today. It's also exciting to I know that we can be just as happy together when don't do those things.

It's the little things that I love about our life. The laughter, the walks we take, old people activities like cards and dominos, and just the feeling of being loved. Although, I guess that last one isn't a little thing. Feeling loved is pretty important and with Tristan, I know that I am. I am grateful to God for the second chance he has given my heart and I look forward to days like today and every other day that I spend with the one I love. I am truly a lucky girl...


-Laura Leigh
Today started pretty early. Most Saturdays T and I go to the local farmer's market to pick up vegetables and other local produce for the week. Sometimes the food is more expensive than the grocery store, sometimes not. This morning we also stopped at Whole Foods to pick up a few things.

I'd say we did pretty good and I'm excited to eat all of these vegetables.


It's really important to me that we buy food that is grown responsibly, and organically when we can find it. I used to wonder why people bought organic food. It's more expensive, and everyone wants to save money, right? So I researched and learned more about organics, about factory farms, and just how much much cheap food is actually costing.

One of the benefits of organic food is the lack of pesticides and chemicals used to produce it. We ingest so many chemicals and not just from food. We take pain killers(chemicals), we breathe in air pollution, consume artificial sweetener(another man-made chemical) and of course all of the pesticides used on our food make their way into our bodies.

Another reason, one that is so awful to me, is the fact that buying cheap and factory raised meat is supporting an unethical and inhumane industry. Animals in these factory farms do not have a life. I do not see a problem with eating meat. I do see a problem with overconsumption in this country and the demand for cheaper and cheaper beef, chicken and pork.

It comes at a price.


The demand for meat is going up. As it does, these factory farms will become more and more common. I hope that we can learn more about this and become responsible consumers. We need to learn that we can consume less. In fact, we would feel so much better if did! Many of us consume almost twice the daily calories that we need. And red meat consumption is way higher than what is actually healthy or necessary.

Food Inc. is an amazing documentary that gives insight as to what we are eating and where it comes from.

This is not a life.


We need to be responsible for these animals and for our planet. Do it for the abused animals, do it for local farmers losing their livelihood to huge factory farms and big business, do it for your health and the health of your family.

I know that Tristan will roll his eyes when he sees that I turned a post about our trip to the farmer's market into a passionate post about the meat industry, but I just can't help it. And I know he cares too. God created a beautiful world for us to live in, we have a responsibility to protect, and respect, it and the animals we share it with. I hope that we can all seek to understand that better.

I'll step down off of my soap box now... Until next time....

-Laura Leigh

Friday




Well it is official, I have 184 days until my life is officially over...

And this is the place it will happen at,


Just kidding of course, we found out that Frost is available the weekend in May we wanted. So it really is official, mark it off on your calendars, May 12th of 2012.

Monday

Home Sweet Home



After Tristan's post about what home is to him, I figured I would write on the same theme. This past weekend we actually got to go to my home and visit my family for the first time in a long time. I love going home but I don't get to do it very often. It can be hard to get consecutive days off and I try to work with Tristan's schedule. Last week, our schedules aligned and it worked out that both of us, and my sister as well, were able to go home to visit my parents for the weekend.

It might sound awful, but when I think of home, one of the first things I think about is food. My mom is an amazing cook and she goes out of her way when anyone is visiting. She always warns us before we eat that "it might not be as good as usual", but it's always delicious. Tristan and I love to cook too, so we all had a part in most of the meals. One that was particularly good was cajun pasta with grilled shrimp. My mom makes the most wonderful honey-lime shrimp. It's a simple recipe including shrimp, a drizzle of honey, fresh lime juice, and Old Bay seasoning.

This is the good stuff.



My mom prepared the shrimp and Tristan and I were in charge of the pasta and sauce. We did a basic parmesan cream sauce with cajun spices and linguini pasta.

This is Tristan's cajun seasoning.



I also prepared a fruit and cheese plate that turned out pretty well. It consisted of an edible honeycomb square from Savannah Bee Company, a parmesan block, sharp white cheddar, dried figs, apple slices, fresh pears, herbed ricotta with rosemary, thyme and mint(all from my mom's garden), my mom's homemade wheat bread and sesame crackers. It was neat getting to try different pairings and discovering how everything tasted together. I would definitely do this again.

The food is great, but the best thing about going home is just getting to spend time with family in the house I grew up in. Walking into my home, with it's familiar smell, the excited barks of our black labs and the memories that live inside those walls, always makes me so happy. Life here in Orlando is busy and hectic, but when I'm home I feel like I can breath easy again.

I love my parents so much and every time I get to go home I'm reminded just how much I've missed them. It makes me sad to imagine living somewhere far away from them. I don't know where we'll end up living, but wherever our travels take us I want them to end close to family. It's in God's hands so what will be will be. I just know I have the most caring and the smartest father who knows everything there is to know about politics, history, art and literally anything in between. And I have the most generous, loving, hardworking, crafty mother who will do anything for anyone and has the skill and talent of Martha Stewart and Bob Vila combined. I didn't make it easy for them, but they stuck with me and loved me when I didn't deserve it. I am so grateful for the sacrifices they've made and for their love.

So I'll wrap this up by saying that to me, home is where your loved ones are. I guess that means I have many different homes. I have a home here in Orlando, with Tristan and my sister. My sister and I have been through a lot. She was my very first best friend and it's good to know that we'll always have each other. Tristan moved here so that we could be close and I love him dearly. I'm grateful to God for giving me someone who is so understanding and patient. I have a home in Kentucky where my extended family lives. I wish I could see my cousins and aunts and uncles more often. And I have my parents' home, the house I grew up in, where I have a puppy named Bear, a sweet old dog named Haley, and the most wonderful mother and father I could hope for. I pray that I never take any of these people for granted and that they know just how special they are to me.


-Laura Leigh

Saturday

Home

Home. It is a word that can take on many shapes and forms if you ask someone what it means to them. October has been an interesting time for us, me in particular, as in regards to "home".

Let me rewind a bit before I go into what the past few weeks has been like. Home for the first 22 years of my life was Rome, and all the people there. Family, Connect Rome, Berry, WinShape all made it home for me. I am firm believer that home is where the heart is and my heart was undoubtedly in Rome thanks to all the people there. That was until God brought Laura into my life. In July of 2010 my heart landed me in Orlando and, whether I liked Orlando or not, it became my home.

And so here we are, October of 2011. To start this month Laura and I traveled to Rome to spend time with family and friends. It was a great trip. Of course we didn't get to see everyone we would have liked, but all the same we saw a lot of people and had a great time. I love going back to Rome because in so many ways it will always be home to me.

Fast forward a week and I receive an e-mail from a old college professor. She tells me the Rome/Floyd YMCA is looking for a Wellness Director. Now this would be THE job I would have if I was to work a the Rome Y. Of course my mind starts spinning...

"Laura is taking all online classes this semester, maybe she can do that next semester too...we could go ahead and move back to Rome and she could finish her UCF degree there...and so on..."

I definitely spent some time romanticizing about life back in Rome. But then the thought struck me,

"If I get this job, and we move back there, what happens to all the Switzerland/Kenya plans we have been making?"

Thus we had a dilemma. Pursue this job opportunity back in Rome or forgo it? Our hearts were telling us a lot of different things. Both of us would love being back in Rome and at least being near some of our family. It is comfortable, familiar, quaint and so many other things that we love. On the other hand being overseas is such an exciting prospect. New places, new people, new food, new experiences. Where to go is the big question we have been asking ourselves since we moved here. And now we were saying

"Well God after all these crazy and exciting plans do you want us to just move back to Rome?"

We have no doubt God will lead us exactly where we are supposed to go. And we both know that sometimes He can call an audible and completely change the direction in which we are headed. We were both kind of thinking this may one of those situations. Then Laura figured out that she would be staying in Orlando till the wedding in May. Some of her classes next semester are not online. And poof, thought of going back Rome gone. If Laura could not come with me then I did not want to go.

That is what I thought anyways. Then God decided to remind of a lesson He has taught me once before. A few days later I get a random, completely out of the blue, text message from my landlord asking if my roommate and I can move out of the apartment.

"Now what?"

That is what I was asking myself. I mean I may not have a place to in the near future and there is great opportunity back in Rome. After some thought we decided that maybe God wanted us to move back to Rome and not go overseas. So I decided to call the membership director of the Rome Y and talk to her about the position. Let's just say she dashed my hopes of not having to leave Laura. She told me to send her my resume and said we would have a phone interview soon. The memories of all the goodbyes to Laura came back to mind and to say I got a little sad is an understatement. The last thing I wanted to do was leave her in Orlando for the last 6 months of our engagement. And so we anxiously waited.

To finish this story, I got a text message from my landlord on Wednesday. She told me that we did not have to move out. The following day I got an e-mail from the Rome Y membership director. The current director has decided to stay and not take another job. And here we are back to normal life in Orlando.

Right now I am sitting in Laura's "home" back in Bradenton. As I think about family and hometowns I am reminded that home really is where the heart is, but, God has also reminded me that my heart should be with Him. My actual home should be where ever He wants me to go, even if that means leaving Laura for a little while. Thankfully I do not have to do that right now. Who knows what tomorrow holds though. As much as I love Laura, and love my family, and love Rome and Bradenton, I try and love God more. And that love will take me, and hopefully Laura as well, right where we are supposed to be.

Sunday

Bonjour & Hello.

Hi there! After much procrastination (and plenty of comments from Tristan) I have decided I should write a post. First of all, welcome to our blog! I'm hoping that friends and family find this to be a simple way to keep up with what we're are doing here in central Florida. I'll just give a brief summary/update in this post.

Living here is okay, but I think that both of us are ready to be done with this big city and move somewhere else. Our wedding will be in May(unless something dramatic happens to change the plans) and I will graduate then as well. After the vows we are free to do just about anything. Tristan has promised that we'll be able to get a puppy after we're married and settled.

Hopefully he's ready for something like this.





I'm not sure where we'll be living after here. Hopefully it will be away from the traffic and dense population we are in the middle of right now. Living anywhere near family would make my heart happy. Kenya is a possibility and Tristan has mentioned both Colorado and Arizona as places with possible job opportunities for him. So we'll see! It's intimidating but exciting too. Between planning the wedding, school, and work, I don't have time to worry about where we'll be this time next year. God will work it out so we'll just keep listening.

As for right now, I am so excited about our wedding! I am going to try to post some of my ideas on here. I want to share all of my DIY plans :) Here is the first of my projects, a brooch bouquet. I found the idea from a wedding blog and I absolutely love it.

This particular bouquet was made with decorative ceramic knobs from Anthropologie.



I've been collecting brooches, pins and knobs for months now and I think I've got just about enough. Now I just have to figure how I'm going to arrange it. Our wedding will be a vintage theme with lots of mason jars, handmade paper flowers and simple, rustic decor. I can't wait to share more on here, but I'll save those for future posts.

Thanks so much for reading and I hope you'll find something interesting about our story and our lives on this blog. We hope to hear from family and friends and we want to know what you're up to as well!

-Laura Leigh

Friday

Wedding Colors

So this will be the color/texture pallet for me in the wedding. Indigo linen suiting and ivory leather shoes anyone? Laura's colors will be similar, don't know if she will have any green though. Throw in some grey and brown/camel for the wedding party and we are all set.

Oh and I heard back from the lady at Berry, we should have an answer about the House O' Dreams by the week of September 26th. Cross your fingers for us.

Thursday

Welcome to a little of T & L.

Welcome dear friends and family. Laura and I wanted to share a little more of us and our lives with everyone we care about and of course anyone else who cares to know. Unfortunately family of ours, and friends alike, are spread out everywhere (Texas, Colorado, Virginia, Honduras, Georgia, Florida, Kenya, etcetera) now-a-days and we don't get to do live together near as much as we would like too. Thus, we decided to make a blog about our lives in the Big "O". In hopes that when our moms say
"you never call...",
and "you don't tell me anything...",
we can rebuttal with "but you can read our blog now."

But for real though, we thought it would be fun to do and we thought some people could enjoy it with us.

Oh and I wrote this while Laura was in bed. You will quickly find out she is the better writer and tends to have a lot less typo's than me. Needless to say when she finds out I posted the first entry without telling her/not letting her read it first I will probably get a stern, but loving all the same, look from Miss Walker.

We look forward to sharing more with you all. Hope you enjoy the stories, recipes, and all the other nonsense that will probably find its way on here.